Entered the Sisters of the Holy Cross from Dublin, Ireland on December 7, 1935
Initial Profession of Vows on August 15, 1938
It is usually a high compliment when a person is described as someone who had such personality that she could stop traffic. Not in the case of Sister Mary Lourdes. Her independence and determination caused concern. Well into her nineties, Sister’s daily prayer included a trip from the Saint Mary’s motherhouse over to the Grotto on the University of Notre Dame campus. If her ride did not show up promptly, Sister Lourdes headed out alone down The Avenue. Just as impatiently, she started across the highway with her rosary, not waiting for cars to slow down on the highway at the main entrance to Saint Mary’s. She brushed off those who would protect her by saying, “Don’t worry about the traffic, people will stop.”
Sister Lourdes often engaged visitors in conversation at the Grotto dedicated to Our Lady of Lourdes. Sister introduced herself to one visitor when she was 93, explaining that she had hoped to receive the name Brigid, patroness of her native Ireland, at the time of her Reception of the Holy Habit in 1936. “But my, how I was delighted to be named after the Blessed Virgin!” Her genuine interaction and humanity touched those she encountered. More than one person remembers Sister’s promise of prayer. “It is all in the hands of God and the Blessed Mother. Give your life completely….”
Sister never lost her Irish brogue, having been born in Dublin, Ireland in 1910. Her father, James Kelly, was a railroad engineer. He had already died of pneumonia at 72 by the time of her Initial Profession as a Sister of the Holy Cross at age 28 in August 1938. Her mother, Frances Phelan Kelly, was 71 when her daughter Anna May Kelly professed her vows. Anna May was the youngest of 11 children, all of whom predeceased her. The music for her Mass of Resurrection will be the same as that for her sister Frances Kelly. Her sister Elizabeth, Sister Mary Martha (Kelly), CSC, did not think Anna May had a religious vocation but agreed to take her with her back to the United States to be a Sister of the Holy Cross. Sister Martha died in 1987. Sister Lourdes, after years of bureaucratic mix-ups, finally became a citizen of the United States in 1948 at age 37.
The young Anna May Kelly had only wanted to be a sister, assuming she would be a housekeeper like the Blessed Mother. As Sister Mary Lourdes she was shocked to be assigned as an elementary school teacher, beginning at St. Joseph School, South Bend, Indiana in 1938, where there was a large Irish population. The children were thrilled to have her as a teacher. She was a successful teacher in parish schools throughout Indiana and Illinois. In 1973 she continued in Catholic education as a tutor for students who needed support, at Holy Redeemer School in Flint, Michigan and in St. Paul’s School, Valparaiso, Indiana, each for three years. In 1980 Sister retired to Saint Mary’s Convent but continued in various ministries of prayer, including visits to the Grotto at Notre Dame, stopping traffic.
Sister Lourdes planned ahead--as did her sister Frances who arranged for 30 masses to be celebrated for Sister Lourdes upon her death. Sister wrote in December 1993 she was, “Looking ahead to that great day.” She wanted no memento at the vigil service, only a rosary recited for the repose of her soul. Sister Lourdes died at Saint Mary’s Convent, Notre Dame, Indiana at the age of 109, having entered Holy Cross after leaving Dublin in the same month 84 years earlier. Her citizenship is now in heaven.
--Written by Sister Catherine Osimo, CSC
We invite you to remember Sister by making a contribution in her name to the Sisters of the Holy Cross Ministry with the Poor Fund at www.cscsisters.org Kaniewski Funeral Home is handling arrangements for Thursday, January 2, 2020 at the Church of Our Lady of Loretto. Visitation will be 9:15 a.m. with the Holy Rosary at 9:45 a.m. Other prayers at 10:15 a.m. immediately followed by the Mass of Resurrection.
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